OPINION BY BRANDI DYE
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Q: How do I get a guy to leave me alone if he doesn’t get the hint after I have made it clear I have no interest in him?
I’ve always had this problem in my life. What do I do? –N.
A: There is only one solution: get ugly. Get a bowl cut, stop wearing bras, wear skorts and rock socks with Crocs. It’s the only way.
If he keeps asking you out, and you keep declining, he is not the type to understand subtlety. He sees your attractiveness and can’t help himself so you must tell him, “I know I’m so sexy and irresistible, but you need to curb your urge to date me because it’s not going to happen.” Or something along those lines. You need to be 100 percent clear that nothing exists between you two. And none of that “He should be able to tell.” You have to use your words, some guys don’t get the obvious hints unless you tell him face-to-face and tell him you are not interested.